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cubrinj

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I’m Greek and grew up with the “mati” being a normal part of life—but I’ve noticed that every family seems to have their own unique way of dealing with it. I’m really curious to hear how others do it!

In my family, salt plays a huge role. My grandmother always kept a little dish of coarse salt near the icons, and if someone got dizzy, irritable, or just “off,” she’d whisper prayers while tossing salt over their shoulders or dissolving it in water. We also do the oil-and-water trick, watching for the droplets to separate or join. And of course, there’s always the person who knows the secret prayer.

I’ve heard some families use threads, others burn charcoal, or recite specific psalms. What are your family’s evil eye rituals? Do you still practice them? I’d love to hear the different versions passed down through your line!
 
It’s amazing how many unique traditions there are around the mati! In my family, salt played a big role too. My yiayia always kept a little bowl of coarse salt near the icon corner, and she’d sprinkle it around the house or dissolve it in water if someone wasn’t feeling quite right. She also taught my dad the family’s secret prayer before she passed, and he carried it with him in his wallet on a little worn card. One day, he let me see it, and I quietly took a photo — so now, I have it too.
 

Village Storytelling Traditions in Greece?

I’m curious — are there still village storytelling traditions in Greece?

My family originally came from a few small mountain villages, but we’ve been in the U.S. for several generations now, and we don’t really have anyone left back in Greece to ask about this. I’ve been thinking about visiting someday, and I keep wondering: if I went to those villages, would there still be older people who share stories the way our grandparents used to?

I don’t mean just local history from books or museums — I’m thinking more about personal stories, folktales, myths, or even funny old family anecdotes passed down out loud.

Does that kind of thing still exist in rural Greece today? Would it be welcomed if I asked about it while visiting, or is it something that has faded away with time?

I’d love to know what to expect and how to approach it respectfully.

How to Celebrate Name Days?

I recently heard that name days are a big deal in Greek culture—sometimes even more important than birthdays! My family has never celebrated them, so I’m curious: how do Greek families typically celebrate name days?

Do people throw parties or have a big dinner? Is there a religious aspect to it, like going to church or lighting a candle for the saint? And how do people know when someone’s name day is?

I’d love to hear what kinds of traditions are tied to name days—whether it’s a small gathering with sweets and coffee, or something more elaborate. Do people give gifts, or is it more about the social connection?

Would really appreciate hearing how your family celebrates, especially if you’re keeping this tradition alive outside of Greece!

Family Evil Eye Rituals?

I’m Greek and grew up with the “mati” being a normal part of life—but I’ve noticed that every family seems to have their own unique way of dealing with it. I’m really curious to hear how others do it!

In my family, salt plays a huge role. My grandmother always kept a little dish of coarse salt near the icons, and if someone got dizzy, irritable, or just “off,” she’d whisper prayers while tossing salt over their shoulders or dissolving it in water. We also do the oil-and-water trick, watching for the droplets to separate or join. And of course, there’s always the person who knows the secret prayer.

I’ve heard some families use threads, others burn charcoal, or recite specific psalms. What are your family’s evil eye rituals? Do you still practice them? I’d love to hear the different versions passed down through your line!

Engagement Traditions in Greece?

I’m curious to learn more about traditional Greek engagement customs. Are there any specific rituals or celebrations that typically happen when a couple gets engaged in Greece?

I’ve heard of the “arravonas,” which I believe is a formal engagement ceremony where both families meet, and sometimes there’s an exchange of rings and blessings. Do people still do that today, or is it more of a past tradition?

Are there certain foods served during an engagement gathering? Do people bring gifts? And is it usually just close family, or a bigger celebration?

I’d love to hear from anyone who’s experienced or witnessed a traditional Greek engagement—whether in Greece or the diaspora. Are there any regional variations? Do any of these customs still carry over into modern times?

Thanks in advance for sharing your stories or family traditions. There are some people in my family who are pretty close to being engaged (fingers crossed!)

Tips for Decorating the Wedding Bed - To Krevati

I've never decorated a wedding bed before, but I’ve been hearing more about the tradition of To Krevati and I’d really love to honor it. The groom’s family is from Greece, and while I’m not Greek myself, I want to surprise them by including something meaningful from the culture. I know it involves decorating the couple’s bed with linens, flowers, money, or even baby items for fertility—but beyond that, I’m not sure how to do it properly or respectfully.

Do you have any tips for setting up the Krevati? Are there specific items I should include—or avoid? Does it happen the night before the wedding, or earlier? Is it more symbolic or do guests actually gather for it?
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