Greek Wedding Traditions in Greece

[d_kakavouli]

I am helping someone plan a traditional Greek wedding. I'm not entirely sure where to start and would appreciate any advice or insights from those who have experience with Greek weddings.

What are some must-have traditions or customs that I should consider? I’ve heard about the Stefana (wedding crowns) and the Koufeta (sugar-coated almonds), but I’d love to know more about their significance and any other meaningful rituals. How do these traditions typically unfold during the ceremony and reception?

Additionally, any tips on how to blend these Greek elements with a more modern wedding style would be incredibly helpful. I want to create a beautiful fusion that respects tradition while still feeling contemporary.

Thank you in advance for your help and suggestions!

 

[k_tsoukalas]

Here are some things to consider - planning a Greek wedding is a fun experience! Some things to keep in mind:

Stefana (wedding crowns): These symbolize the unity of the couple. The crowns are exchanged three times during the ceremony to represent the bond and mutual respect.

Koufeta (sugar-coated almonds): Usually given as wedding favors, the almonds represent the bittersweet nature of marriage. An odd number is used to symbolize that the couple cannot be divided.

Ceremony rituals: The couple circles the altar three times, symbolizing their journey together. The priest blesses them, and the Koumbaros (wedding sponsor) plays a significant role in assisting with the crowns and rings.

Reception traditions: Greek weddings often feature lively dancing, like the Kalamatianos and Tsamiko, and the cutting of a special wedding cake.

To blend these elements with a modern style, you can incorporate traditional customs during the ceremony and opt for contemporary decor and music at the reception. Personal touches, like modern invitations or a fusion menu, can also help balance tradition with a modern feel.