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I’ve seen many posts about Greek traditions. But what are some Greek American ones? I’d love to hear your favorites!!
 
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Here are some Greek American traditions that I can think of:

1. Greek festivals, Greek dances and other local Greek events (most Greek Orthodox churches in the US have many local festivals and events).
2. Greek Independence Day parades - Many major US cities have Greek parades every year (Boston, NYC, Chicago, etc.).
3. All Grenglish words that are not real words in Greek or English, but many times are really funny, here is a good list to get a good laugh :)
https://www.greekboston.com/grenglish-greeklish/
 
I’ve seen many posts about Greek traditions. But what are some Greek American ones? I’d love to hear your favorites!!

We love to try to keep the culture alive here in the United States, and the festivals are a great place for this. There are also a ton of restaurants all over the US. The culture is kept alive through its food, and from inside the Greek Orthodox Church communities.
 
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Greek festivals? That's about all I can think of. We try to keep our traditions as close to the traditions in Greece as possible. If anything, we've lost some of the traditions (unless you are very connected to Greece and still have family that lives in Greece), or we have combined Greek traditions with American traditions. For example, Greek weddings in Greece don't have bridesmaids and groomsmen, they have 1 or 2 koumparoi at most, and in America we have several bridesmaids and groomsmen. Also, the Groom waits at the entrance of the church with all of the women and no one enters the church until the bride and groom (they are followed in by the guests).

One thing that is unique about Greek spoken by Greek Americans vs Greeks in Greece is that we use older words. For example, I like to use the word "pantote - πάντοτε" which means "always" when I speak Greek, but no one really uses it anymore- the more common word is "panta - πάντα"... For some odd reason, when Greek Americans dance tsamiko, the steps are more rigid than what you see in Greece. I'm not sure why it's that way. Maybe it's because the dance was more rigid 50+ years ago because Greece needed to show aggression (strength)? I don't know.

Edit: Greek Americans are very big on going to church 1. because Greeks are religious, and 2. going to church is how we connect with other Greeks and keep the tradition going. Greeks in Greece don't go to church like we do.. They might show up for 10 minutes to take communion and then go home, they don't get to know the other people at church, and they don't wear dress clothes to church like we do either.
 
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Here are some Greek American traditions that I can think of:

1. Greek festivals, Greek dances and other local Greek events (most Greek Orthodox churches in the US have many local festivals and events).
2. Greek Independence Day parades - Many major US cities have Greek parades every year (Boston, NYC, Chicago, etc.).
3. All Grenglish words that are not real words in Greek or English, but many times are really funny, here is a good list to get a good laugh :)
https://www.greekboston.com/grenglish-greeklish/
Lol greeklish will get you into trouble.. One thing Greeks Americans do when when they forget an english word is stick iota at the end of the word. car -> carι, roof -> roofι.... If you're not careful, you can make an embarrassing mistake and forget the word moon and accidentally say moonι (Kοίτα το moonί. Είναι ωράιο απόψε) like a family member of mine did once. 😆
 
Greek festivals? That's about all I can think of. We try to keep our traditions as close to the traditions in Greece as possible. If anything, we've lost some of the traditions (unless you are very connected to Greece and still have family that lives in Greece), or we have combined Greek traditions with American traditions. For example, Greek weddings in Greece don't have bridesmaids and groomsmen, they have 1 or 2 koumparoi at most, and in America we have several bridesmaids and groomsmen. Also, the Groom waits at the entrance of the church with all of the women and no one enters the church until the bride and groom (they are followed in by the guests).

One thing that is unique about Greek spoken by Greek Americans vs Greeks in Greece is that we use older words. For example, I like to use the word "pantote - πάντοτε" which means "always" when I speak Greek, but no one really uses it anymore- the more common word is "panta - πάντα"... For some odd reason, when Greek Americans dance tsamiko, the steps are more rigid than what you see in Greece. I'm not sure why it's that way. Maybe it's because the dance was more rigid 50+ years ago because Greece needed to show aggression (strength)? I don't know.

Edit: Greek Americans are very big on going to church 1. because Greeks are religious, and 2. going to church is how we connect with other Greeks and keep the tradition going. Greeks in Greece don't go to church like we do.. They might show up for 10 minutes to take communion and then go home, they don't get to know the other people at church, and they don't wear dress clothes to church like we do either.
Wow this is so thorough!! I love to read about Greek-American culture. Thanks so much for sharing
 

Greek Wedding Traditions Roundup

I am helping someone plan her Greek wedding. I wanted to make a list of all the traditions we need to keep in time for the big day. Did I miss anything?

The Stolisma

The wedding day begins with the ritual of 'Stolisma,' where the bride and groom are prepared separately by their families. It's a moment filled with emotion, songs, and blessings, setting the tone for the day. I had honestly never heard of this. Do people still do it?

The Krevati

An amusing tradition is the 'Krevati' (bed making), where family and friends gather to decorate the couple's future bed with baby items, symbolizing fertility and a happy family life. Money is also often thrown on the bed for good luck and prosperity.

The Crowning (Stefana)

One of the most iconic rituals during the ceremony is the exchange of crowns or 'Stefana.' I believe they need to buy the crowns they want in advance?

Koufeta

No Greek wedding would be complete without 'Koufeta'—sugar-coated almonds given to guests as wedding favors. These bittersweet treats represent the ups and downs of married life and are shared in odd numbers to symbolize indivisibility and shared life.

List of Cretan Dances?

I will be attending a Cretan wedding and am curious about the traditional Cretan dances! I know the dances are slightly different and I want to learn some. I don't know the names of the dances so that I can look them up. I did some research, though. Are any of these dances common at these weddings?
  • Pentozali
  • Sousta
  • Siganos
  • Chaniotis
There's a dance the wedding party typically does in Crete. Which dance is that?

What is kefi exactly?

I have always found the concept of kefi to be intriguing, and I would like to learn more about it from those familiar or even vaguely aware of this notion. From what little I understand, kefi seems to embody a unique blend of joy, spirit, and passion, deeply ingrained in Greek culture. It's more than just a word; it's a lifestyle, a form of expression, an unbridled enthusiasm for life.

However, I'm curious to know about the deeper nuances and applications of kefi. How does kefi manifest in day-to-day life, not just in Greece, but wherever one might find joy and enthusiasm? Is it something that can be consciously cultivated, or does it spontaneously bloom in moments of happiness and high spirits? It seems like it really permeates the culture, especially in Greece.

When does Orthodox lent start this year?

I noticed our Easter is late - May 5th - but Western Easter is at the end of March. Has Lent already started for them? When does our Lent start?

This year, I plan to do a stricter Lenten fast, so I want to plan some things out in advance.

Lent is a time for introspection, repentance, and spiritual growth. Through the dedicated practice of fasting, prayer, and charity, believers seek not only to grow closer to God but also to better understand themselves in relation to God’s will.

Learning about hospitality in Greece

I was trying to explain to some non-Greek friends about hospitality in Greece. I feel like it's next level, but how do you explain it?

Could anyone help me explain any of the following:
  • Traditional welcome gestures in Greece
  • Common household customs when visiting a Greek home
  • Etiquette for showing appreciation to Greek hosts
  • Any specific do's and don'ts that a foreigner should be aware of
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