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Do you still break plates at celebrations?

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My cousin is getting married later this year, and during the planning, she mentioned something that made me smile—she wants to break plates at the reception! It brought back memories of older family weddings where the music was loud, the dancing was wild, and the plates were flying (safely, of course).

But I’m wondering, do people still do this? I know it’s a classic Greek thing, but I’ve also heard that in modern times, many venues don’t allow it, or people opt for safer alternatives like throwing flowers or using napkins. Some say it’s more of a touristy thing now, but I still associate it with joy, energy, and that unapologetic Greek celebration spirit.

Has anyone here actually broken plates at a recent event, especially a wedding? Was it allowed at the venue, or did you find a workaround? Curious to hear your stories, advice, or modern twists on the tradition!
 
What a fun memory—and such a great topic! I’ve definitely seen the tradition evolve. At my cousin’s wedding a few years ago, the venue didn’t allow actual plate breaking (insurance reasons), but they got creative: they had special plaster “breakaway” plates designed for performances. A few were smashed during a dramatic zeibekiko and it totally amped up the energy without making a mess or risking injury.

Another wedding I went to replaced plates with flower petals and napkins, tossed during dancing. It might sound tame, but the joy and movement made it feel just as festive. I’ve even heard of people setting up a designated “breaking station” outside with safe materials just for photo ops.
 
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