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I thought I would ask your thoughts oh Philoxenia - or the Greek way, or art, of hospitality. I noticed this when I travel in Greece. People are so kind, they often go out of the way for us, when I feel that they don't have to! How can one describe this to someone?

From what I understand, Philoxenia is not merely a practice but a deeply ingrained value within Greek culture that extends far beyond the simple act of hosting. It reflects a genuine, heartfelt welcome to strangers, treating them with the same respect and generosity one would show to a dearly beloved friend. This beautiful tradition, passed down through generations, turns the act of hosting into an art form, embodying warmth, respect, and a profound sense of human compassion. There have been so many stories I can think of...

This thought process was triggered because we were watching My Big Fat Greek Wedding 3 - someone in the village had taken on a Syrian refugee. Is this a Greek hospitality thing? Philoxenia?
 
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I had a woman once, use her coffee break from her job in a store, to help us find our way back to our hotel in Piraeus. Very kind people there.
 
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I had a woman once, use her coffee break from her job in a store, to help us find our way back to our hotel in Piraeus. Very kind people there.
That's so sweet!

My experiences are very similar. Kind people. Over the years I've befriended taxi drivers and tour guides - we're still in touch. Each time we go back to Greece, they go out of their way for hospitality.
 
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Do you still break plates at celebrations?

My cousin is getting married later this year, and during the planning, she mentioned something that made me smile—she wants to break plates at the reception! It brought back memories of older family weddings where the music was loud, the dancing was wild, and the plates were flying (safely, of course).

But I’m wondering, do people still do this? I know it’s a classic Greek thing, but I’ve also heard that in modern times, many venues don’t allow it, or people opt for safer alternatives like throwing flowers or using napkins. Some say it’s more of a touristy thing now, but I still associate it with joy, energy, and that unapologetic Greek celebration spirit.

Has anyone here actually broken plates at a recent event, especially a wedding? Was it allowed at the venue, or did you find a workaround? Curious to hear your stories, advice, or modern twists on the tradition!

Need Help for Learning Greek

What are some good programs to use for learning Greek? I travel to Greek enough and my Greek is very basic. I want to get better.

Can you recommend a program or method that has worked the best for you? I know everyone is different. I am considering Duo Lingo, Rosetta Stone, Pimsleur, winging it, and private tutoring.

I have a friend who knows several languages and she told me to wing it. Dive in and start using the language. But my brain is craving a lot more structure.

Playing the tsougrisma game at Easter?

Hey everyone! With Easter coming up, I was thinking about the tsougrisma game we always play with the red eggs after the Resurrection service. You know—the egg cracking battle to see who ends up with the "uncracked champion"?

I’m curious—do you and your family still play it? And do the “rules” vary from house to house? In my family, we get very competitive about it—everyone picks their egg carefully and there's always a big cheer when someone stays undefeated!

I’d love to hear your stories. Do you play at midnight? At lunch the next day? Does your family do something funny or unique with it?

Share your traditions! It’s such a simple thing, but it really makes Easter feel complete for me.

What does Philoxenia mean to you?

I was trying to explain to someone today just how incredibly hospitable people in Greece are, and it hit me—this is philoxenia in action! For those who might not know, philoxenia literally means “friend to a stranger,” but it’s so much more than that. It’s about showing warmth, generosity, and respect to guests, often going above and beyond to make someone feel welcome.

I found it tough to put into words exactly what it means because it’s not just a concept—it’s something you feel when you experience it firsthand. Whether it’s someone sharing their food with you, helping you when you’re lost, or inviting you into their home, philoxenia is such a beautiful and unique part of Greek culture.

I’m curious, what are your thoughts on philoxenia?

Do Greeks have Christmas trees in their homes?

I’ve been learning about Greek Christmas traditions and noticed how rich and unique they are—like the karavaki (decorated boat) and the singing of kalanda (carols). It’s all so fascinating!

This got me wondering: do Greeks typically have Christmas trees in their homes, like many other countries do? If so, are they decorated in any special way that reflects Greek culture? Or are traditional decorations like the karavaki more common?

I’d also love to know if there are specific ornaments or symbols that hold special meaning during the Greek Christmas season. Also, how long do they keep the trees up if they do have them?
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