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Appropriate clothing for Holy Week services?

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auroracoor1

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I was going to wear a floral dress to the service on Good Friday - I pretty much always do - and someone made a comment that they didn't think it's appropriate because it is a service of mourning.

You know, I guess that makes sense - but I haven't that much of it. What are your thoughts on it? I ended up choosing an outfit that looked a little more somber.

I am curious about the best things to wear through Holy Week! I am assuming the really spring-like colors are best on Pascha?
 
I was in just in church last night and the attire ranged from suits and dresses to jeans and a pretty top. The weekday services tend to be a bit more casual than what I am used to for a Sunday.
 
Weekday services may be a bit more casual, but Good Friday is the most solemn day of the year. When I was growing up it was considered taboo to wear a sleeveless dress or top, but I guess now, pretty much anything goes. My thought is jeans are definitely not ok for church, but I guess just being there is more important than what you're wearing.
 
Definitely floral is a no no unless it's all black and gray tones. It's a somber day. If you won't wear it to a funeral, don't wear it to that service. It's also a pretty dressy occasion. If you wear something casual you'll feel out of place.
 
It's about striking the right tone for the occasion. For Good Friday, somber vibes tend to fit better, but for Pascha, spring colors are a great choice to match the celebration.
 
For Good Friday, a somber outfit seems fitting, maybe in darker or more neutral colors. However, I don't think floral is completely out of place as long as it's not overly bright. For the rest of Holy Week, you can gradually shift to lighter and more joyful colors, with the most vibrant ones saved for Pascha. I usually go for something that reflects the somberness but isn't too heavy, maybe a simple dress or a nice blouse and skirt combo. I recently discovered Mato & Hash online and found some great options there. They have a mix of everything, from simple to more festive attire.
 
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