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toniiv

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I stumbled upon this article and I thought you all would find it helpful. Dating these days is a bit harder because of the pandemic so we all need a little bit of help! Good luck :) My advice is to be true to yourself and just enjoy dating

 
Here's a tip. Don't :LOL:. They will expect you to be like their mother
 
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That's funny.....Does this still happen???
Unfortunately, yes. The younger generation (I'm a millennial btw) is the worst... The guys want a traditional wife who will be exactly like their mom... They are very jealous and controlling too.

Edit: I'm talking about men who were born and raised in Greece, not Greek men born and raised in Canada/Australia/USA/UK etc... Those Greek men have a different head on their shoulders
 
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Unfortunately, yes. The younger generation (I'm a millennial btw) is the worst... The guys want a traditional wife who will be exactly like their mom... They are very jealous and controlling too.

Edit: I'm talking about men who were born and raised in Greece, not Greek men born and raised in Canada/Australia/USA/UK etc... Those Greek men have a different head on their shoulders

This has been my experience too, and of course, there are exceptions to the rule... Dating can be tricky! Here's some information:

 
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I’ve found that keeping things light and real goes a long way, especially now. If someone wants to meet people without overthinking it, checking out omegle alternatives can be handy for relaxed chats and getting a feel for new connections. Staying open, having a bit of humor, and not forcing anything usually makes conversations flow way better, whether online or face to face.
 
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What Does Philotimo Mean to You?

I’ve been thinking a lot lately about the word, or really, the concept, of philotimo. It’s one of those Greek words that just doesn’t translate neatly into English. I was recently trying to explain it to a non-Greek friend, and I realized how difficult it is to put into words!

I ended up talking about ideas like honor, dignity, courage, generosity, and doing the right thing because it’s simply the right thing to do. I even used some historical examples, including the 300 Spartans at Thermopylae and the spirit of Ochi Day, to try to explain the sense of duty and selflessness that I associate with philotimo.

But I know the concept can also show up in much smaller, everyday ways. How would you explain philotimo to someone unfamiliar with Greek culture? What does the word mean to you personally?

What was school like in Greece?

I’m Greek, but I never actually went to school in Greece. I only spent summers there growing up. Lately, though, I’ve become really curious about what everyday school life is actually like.

I have close Greek friends who are moving back to Greece permanently, and they have two young children (ages 5 and 7) who will be entering the Greek school system. It made me realize how little I really know about the day-to-day experience beyond what I remember from being around cousins in the summer.

For those of you who went to school in Greece: what was it like, especially in the early years? How structured is the school day? What’s the relationship like between teachers and students? And how do kids generally adjust socially?

I’m genuinely curious what those first school years might feel like for them!

Greek Traditions from Childhood?

I’d love to hear everyone’s memories of Greek traditions from childhood, especially the small everyday things that may not even seem unusual until you look back on them later.

For me, some of the strongest memories are tied to food, church, family gatherings, name days, holiday preparations, and the feeling of constantly having people around. Even certain sounds and smells immediately bring everything back.

I’m also curious how traditions differed depending on region or family background. Did your family keep strong village customs? Were there things your grandparents insisted on doing a certain way? Any traditions connected to Easter, Christmas, weddings, coffee, hospitality, music, or food?

For me, we ate a family-oriented Sunday meal where everyone go together after church. That was a big part of things for me.

Are most Greeks left or right?

Are most Greeks liberal leftist progressives? Most that I encounter are. Not only that but self hating. WHY?

What are your favorite name day traditions?

I’ve always loved the tradition of celebrating name days. In my family, they’re just as meaningful as birthdays, and sometimes even more fun because they bring everyone together in a different way.

When a big name day comes around, especially one that several family members share, we often turn it into a full family gathering. For example, on a name day like Nick/Nikolas, where there might be multiple people celebrating, it becomes almost like a mini family holiday. Someone hosts, there’s plenty of food, and everyone comes by to wish the celebrants “chronia polla.”

I also like the simplicity of the tradition. Even if there isn’t a big gathering, people still call or send messages to acknowledge the day.

Do you celebrate name days in your family? And are there certain ones that turn into larger celebrations because several people share the name?
Share and discuss Greek traditions related to Greek weddings, christenings, dance & holidays!

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