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auroracoor1

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When I go to Greece, sometimes I wonder if there is some etiquette to keep in mind. My questions:

1. Is there a way to greet someone in Greek when you walk into a store or restaurant?
2. Is there phone etiquette to follow?
3. Anything else I should know?

Thanks!
 
The etiquette there is pretty much the same in the USA/Canada/Australia...

The immediate things that come to mind are:

  1. Always take a gift when invited to someone's house
  2. Take off your shoes before going in someone's house
  3. If you have a family member in college in Greece, give them money when you see them.
  4. If you're visiting an older family member (e.g. your grandparents) in a village, give them 100 euros (or whatever you can afford to give)
  5. Do not leave the air conditioning on all night when staying at someone's house. Utilities are extremely expensive and the AC usually turned on when guests are over and turned off when they leave. In most instances, windows are left open for air
  6. Don't go into a store just to browse; they don't like it. You're either in there to buy something or not at all.
There is no specific way to answer the phone in Greece. The most common way to answer it is by saying "ναι" (pronounced neh), which means "yes".
 
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When a Greek wants to pay the bill, don’t argue. Refusal of a “gift” is definitely bad form. (Just try to pick up the tab for the next time or round.)

If someone has made a kind gesture towards you and your offer to pay them is refused (which it is likely to be), you can always give them something for “τα παιδια”. Gifts to children are always welcomed and acceptable. Obviously any gifts to family members (like grandparents) are a different matter and will be welcomed.

When entering a store, a simple good morning (καλημέρα) or good afternoon (καλησπέρα) will suffice. If you’re speaking to a much older person or want to show a little more respect, just add σας (sas) after it.
 
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Thank you so much - I find this so helpful. I plan to visit with people who have kids- friends. I wonder if I should bring a few gifts from home for the kids just in case?
 
That would be a nice gesture; it will be well-received. You should plan on it; not “just in case”. Sometimes when one brings gifts to the parents, the adults reciprocate (even with all of the hospitality they have already afforded you) so you can always show your appreciation to them by gifting to their children.
 
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I think it is a great idea to give a gift to he children! That's the best way, I think.
 

Thinking about the Greek way of hospitality...

I thought I would ask your thoughts oh Philoxenia - or the Greek way, or art, of hospitality. I noticed this when I travel in Greece. People are so kind, they often go out of the way for us, when I feel that they don't have to! How can one describe this to someone?

From what I understand, Philoxenia is not merely a practice but a deeply ingrained value within Greek culture that extends far beyond the simple act of hosting. It reflects a genuine, heartfelt welcome to strangers, treating them with the same respect and generosity one would show to a dearly beloved friend. This beautiful tradition, passed down through generations, turns the act of hosting into an art form, embodying warmth, respect, and a profound sense of human compassion. There have been so many stories I can think of...

This thought process was triggered because we were watching My Big Fat Greek Wedding 3 - someone in the village had taken on a Syrian refugee. Is this a Greek hospitality thing? Philoxenia?

Learning about hospitality in Greece

I was trying to explain to some non-Greek friends about hospitality in Greece. I feel like it's next level, but how do you explain it?

Could anyone help me explain any of the following:
  • Traditional welcome gestures in Greece
  • Common household customs when visiting a Greek home
  • Etiquette for showing appreciation to Greek hosts
  • Any specific do's and don'ts that a foreigner should be aware of

Greek Wedding Traditions Roundup

I am helping someone plan her Greek wedding. I wanted to make a list of all the traditions we need to keep in time for the big day. Did I miss anything?

The Stolisma

The wedding day begins with the ritual of 'Stolisma,' where the bride and groom are prepared separately by their families. It's a moment filled with emotion, songs, and blessings, setting the tone for the day. I had honestly never heard of this. Do people still do it?

The Krevati

An amusing tradition is the 'Krevati' (bed making), where family and friends gather to decorate the couple's future bed with baby items, symbolizing fertility and a happy family life. Money is also often thrown on the bed for good luck and prosperity.

The Crowning (Stefana)

One of the most iconic rituals during the ceremony is the exchange of crowns or 'Stefana.' I believe they need to buy the crowns they want in advance?

Koufeta

No Greek wedding would be complete without 'Koufeta'—sugar-coated almonds given to guests as wedding favors. These bittersweet treats represent the ups and downs of married life and are shared in odd numbers to symbolize indivisibility and shared life.

Netflix Show about Alexander the Great

I just noticed there was a show about Alexander the Great on Netflix. How is it?

I have been noticing some buzz that it's fairly controversial, but those who are unhappy about it ... I can't tell if they actually know about him, or if they are just upset about how he was depicted.

I am trying to figure out if I want to watch it so your honest reviews are welcome.

I have studied Alexander the Great a little bit and no a bit about his life, so I am sincerely hoping it's worth my time. I am between shows at the moment.

Where did plate smashing come from?

When Greeks feel happy and are dancing and have a good time, they've been known to smash plates. I've seen it! It's not just a tourist thing - but they don't do it much because I am sure they won't want to smash their expensive dish wear.

I was just at a wedding and they had purchased plates to smash - so basically they were cheap throwaway plates that actually smashed really well. I almost wonder if they were made for the purpose...

It got me thinking - where did this tradition come from? Does anyone know?
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