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What are Greek engagement traditions?

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I haven't heard much about Greek engagement traditions in Australia but I've always been curious. What is the process of getting engaged in Greece?
 
One of the older traditions (although many still do it today) is have a dowry for the wife. You can read more here:

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It is traditional to have an Aravona or engagement ceremony where the priest blesses the couple and rings. At this event family members purchase jewelry for the bride (and groom but but as much) and place it on her.
 
Here are some Greek Orthodox wedding traditions that might help:

Greek Wedding Traditions

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Many of the old traditions are still part of the culture - formally asking her to marry, talking with her family, etc. I love the tradition with the rings (the Aravona ceremony). So cool! In the United States, many of us have adopted the American traditions.
 
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